I hope I am not forgotten!
I have not been here for a long time, I realize that, I just hope you don't mind.
I have been reading some of the posts, and realize I should come more often. I have been through losing both parents, so I can relate to most of you.
As for my son, he is fine, defying all the statistics they gave us: Quads live normally 20 years after the accident--Well he is going on his 21st year with no serious problems, so maybe being a stay at home person does help.
All take care of yourselfs and your families.