room mate advice
I am having some problems with my room mate and would really enjoy any tips or advice someone has to offer
I currently am living with my boyfriend and another room mate which just happens to be my boyfriends best friend. He is a lazy messy guy who only cares about himself but my S.O. thinks this will change. since we moved in he has been using our hygiene products, eating our food, and smoking marijuana and cigarettes in the house. He constantly lies about these things or says he will replace the things he uses and then doesn't. As an asthmatic person his smoking is harmful to me, and when i bring it up to him he only gets mad because i am trying to "control" him.
today im really at the end of my rope, rent is due and he is lying in bed because he doesn't have the money..yet the lease only has his name on it so i am unable to go pay it. my money is also sitting on his desk and im trusting that he will do with it what he should.
if anyone has any advice the help would be very appreciated. thank you.