To retaliate or not?
I just move to a new apartment back in December. The apt. is very big and expensive(I live in NYC). I have two children ages 5 and 7, and they go to school every day. They leave for school at 6:50 because they have to go on the bus. My big problem is the arse living downstairs. This guy has serious issues and is complaining about noise all the time. The first time he complained was a Thrusday while i was moving in!!!! I told him we were moving in and that some noise were expected at a reasonable hour(5:30 P.M), he just looked at me like i was crazy. The next time, I had the cable guy installing my cable and he was waring his big boots and drilling on the wall(around 4:30 P.M) so the guy retaliated by playing loud-ass music that made everything vibrate inside my apt. I know he did it on purpose because he latter told my husband he was sending a message to me and my children to keep quiet or else he would play his loud music. My husband is not a violent person so he brushed it off as he guy been crazy and wanting to make trouble( i think he lives alone in a 3 bedroom apt.!!!!!!)Sycho!!!!!But for me this is getting to far. Oh now he is ringing my buzzer at 4:00 A.M on a week day, he just did it today. We have cameras in our building so it would not be hard to prove it was him. Last sunday i saw him doing it. I am getting pretty mad about this because I am doing everything in my power to keep my children from running in the apt. or making a lot of noise. My children are very good ones and they get home at about 6:00 P.M everyday. I told my building manager about this idiot and they said not to listen to him. But that was before the buzzing started, Should i call them again or call the police? This feels like harrassment and i am not going to take it. What should i do guys?